I am supposed to go to a Memorial Day cookout today. The weather really sucks though. Rainy and overcast. On the positive side at least it's not blazing hot today.
I have been spending a lot of time on Twitter. Joining and following a lot of Autism related twitters. It's a good way to find out how others are dealing with similar situations. I particularly like to hear age milestones. Such as how their child responded to leaving elementary school, going to middle school, changing teachers, growth spurts and friends. It's hard for my son to really make friends outside of school because he goes from his dad's house to mine and in my area there are few kids that live near. We'd have to go hang out on the street to meet kids and with him being autistic we usually go where I can see him readily and he can't go darting off when he gets mad. We go to parks or McDonalds because they are more of a contained area. The street or neighborhood play is dangerous in my opinion because he might meltdown and run into the street. He does not have any fear and when he is mad he is more flighty and unaware or unwilling to consider consequences. This is always a tough area for me because I can't just sit and read a book or get too engrossed in conversation with another parent. I am ever diligent and alert to his body language, position, eye shifting and facial expressions or lack thereof. Sometimes his face becomes taut like canvaas right before a meltdown or some emotional outburst and he stares straight into nowhere like he's seeing a 4th dimension none of us can see but him.
At any rate ... that's a small window into what it's like to live with Aspergers/Autism. It's a bit unnerving to have that amount of space between you and your child even if you are standing right next to him and he has not even hit puberty yet. :) Good times good times.
Thanks to our men and women in uniform ... serving or who served and sacrificed for our privileges and freedoms.
Labels: asperger, friends, memorial day